do you love someone for a reason?

Someone once said this, "We don't love someone because he is such and such a person - reasons have lifespans, and when that lifespan is reached, you lose your reason for loving that person. You don't love someone because of what he/she is/does. you love someone because you commit yourself to doing it; because you want to and you choose to."

So am I being loved for reason?

"Next time if all of you ever die, see if anyone is going to attend your funerals!"

"You're hopeless!"

"I will not leave my property to you even when I die!"

"All of you are sleeping with the devil."

These are some of the exchanges we had during dinner time. Not the best chat I had with him so far, however I had even worst ones. If the only way to communicate with his child is to use hurtful, insulting and negative words; then I apologise that I would not be able to be a good child. Seems like you never change; when will you ever learn to communicate the proper way. You always think that you have the right of way; thinking that you fervently spend every Sunday on holy grounds, does not mean God grant you a way to heaven. I often wonder how nicely you can speak to others, but not to your "loved" ones. Is it necessary to speak in a harsh manner to get things done? Have you not realise your own tonality when you speak? All these years, I asked for a decent relationship with you, but seems like it gets worst over the years. Asked yourself, have you shown much love and respect here? I do not care about the property, all I ever wanted is to have a complete life. And you took that away from me! It is entirely all your fault! Has she not done enough for her role? She did her best and you took her for granted. And what is with the adultery? You have no guts to even apologise for it. Is your ego and pride greater than us? It was just a simple word of apology; just to admit that you did wrong. I once asked her, how could things be different? She said, "Just a simple word called 'sorry'." It just takes a word like that to change our destiny and you would not even do it. You are pathetic.

This is for a special girlfriend of mine, Mou Mou.


Who is Mou Mou? Hmmm... I wonder why she calls herself "Hairy", which is 'Mou Mou' in Cantonese. Actually she is also known as Elaine or Miss Innocently Blur Princess to me. *giggles* She is a girl with a really great personality and she is really great fun to have around. I missed those days where we did spend time hanging out, cooking, baking and our long phone chats (thanks to Optus FREE talktime minutes!) What I love about her is her sincerity, kindness and patience towards others. Her amiable self and her humility truly sets her apart from others. You can teased her all you want, because she will just turn to you and *bwWek*; Haha, her infamous typing habit of having bIg and SmALl fOnTS. V('_')V *peace* Not to mention her favourite poses with the 'peace' or 'thumbs up' sign! kekeke. "So Elaine!"

Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.
- 1 Thessalonians 5:11

This was one of the verses I learned while I attended Faith Church in Perth. This verse always remind me to encourage the people around me, instead of criticizing them. Indeed it can easily be preached, and however easily not be practice too. It is because of our ever so critical human nature towards others that such a simple verse cannot be put into good practice. Relationships can always improve a lot more from being a critic to an encourager. Though at times my emotions do get the better of me, and I tend to say things in anger knowing that it will do no good somehow. This verse will always be kept at thoughts for me; as reminder to mellow myself.

The Sonnet
Deliberate Gentle Love Dreamer (DGLDf)

Romantic, hopeful, and composed. You are the Sonnet. Get it? Composed?

Sonnets want Love and have high ideals about it. They're conscientious people, caring & careful. You yourself have deep convictions, and you devote a lot of thought to romance and what it should be. This will frighten away most potential mates, but that's okay, because you're very choosy with your affections anyway. You'd absolutely refuse to date someone dumber than you, for instance.

Lovers who share your idealized perspective, or who are at least willing to totally throw themselves into a relationship, will be very, very happy with you. And you with them. You're already selfless and compassionate, and with the right partner, there's no doubt you can be sensual, even adventurously so.

You probably have lots of female friends, and they have a special soft spot for you. Babies do, too, at the tippy-top of their baby skulls.

Your exact opposite:
Genghis Khunt
Random Brutal Sex Master

ALWAYS AVOID: The 5-Night Stand, The False Messiah, The Hornivore, The Last Man on Earth

CONSIDER: The Loverboy

Matchmaking Personality Test:
http://www.okcupid.com/oktest

Lately there have been lots of media exposure to the blogging scene. Yeah, since when blogging has become a big hoo-ha? Well thanks to the media who actually bothers to check out blogs and the bloggers who have so much to express about themselves, other people, the environment which surrounds them, and myriad of other stuff to say about. For sure, it is definitely interesting to read all these entries; more of entertainment value to me.

Anyway why the need to bring up all those bloggers? Blogger who flaunts her nudity. Blogger whose blog was being hacked into. Blogger who has a great sense of humor.

Plus now potential employers are checking up on their potential candidates' blogs too! Geez! Candidates cannot have a piece of their minds now? Even on the cyberspace?! That is their private lives, man. Unless employers feel that they need to know the candidate's private self to be able to assess the person's eligibility to work professionally. However can they judge the person this way without giving them a chance? That is absolutely bullshit to me. Can someone please put the 'Equal Opportunity Law' in place here? It can really be exasperating for jobseeks.

Lastly, it is defnitely not much of a "freedom of speech" here either. You got to watch what you say, even though you might think it is your personal blog. In case, you are liable for defamation or libel; you might not want to go to that extend.

However it is a good place to voice your ramblings.